For the high-achieving Black woman ready to stop people-pleasing  ·  Dr. Jite Lark

ENOUGH

The No That Leads You Back to You

Self-paced · Lifetime access · Workbook + guided audio

Launch Price  ·  June 4, 2026 $150 $300
Interrupt the Yes — $150

Is saying yes destroying your life?

Are you tired of going from self improvement plan to self improvement plan and still feel like you're bleeding?

Is your marriage one more compromise from being over?

Are you done being dependable at work while you watch less competent colleagues get promoted?

Are you the strong one — the one everyone counts on, and exhausted by how long you've been doing it without anyone asking if you're okay?

I created ENOUGH because I was her — multiple degrees, six-figure salary, three jobs, still saying yes to everything that drained me.

What finally changed wasn't a book or a list. It was understanding that the yes was a reflex firing in my body before my brain could catch up. Once I learned to interrupt it there — in the two-second window — things changed.

That's what ENOUGH teaches you to do. In your own voice. In your own life.

Dr. Jite Lark
Interrupt the Yes — $150

"I would not have done that before. I would have stayed quiet and made sure everyone else was okay. That's not who I am anymore."

— Racquel L., Former client

How it works

The two-second window is where everything lives.

01

The Trigger

Someone needs something. The request lands. Your body registers it before your mind does.

02

The Two-Second Window

Chest tightens. Shoulders rise. Breath holds. Your yes fires here, before your brain has time to weigh in. This is the reflex.

03

Interrupt

This is where ENOUGH lives. Before the yes leaves your mouth. You learn to catch it here — in your body, and choose.

Most people try to change the yes with willpower. ENOUGH interrupts it before it fires.

What ENOUGH is

The training showed you the pattern. ENOUGH is where you interrupt it.

If you watched the free training, you felt it. You know what the reflex is. You can explain it.

But knowing what's happening and stopping it in the moment that matters — those are two different things.

ENOUGH is where you interrupt the yes in your own voice, as a practice — not a concept. In your own life, in the exact two seconds before the yes leaves your mouth. That is where the work lives. That is where this begins.

Four modules. Self-paced. Yours for life. A guided audio with Dr. Jite for each module that you listen to first. Then you do the work yourself, in your own time, in your own voice.

By the end, you'll have your own blueprint for the moment the yes wants to fire, and the practice to interrupt it before it does.

What's inside

Four modules. Each one builds on the last.

Module 01

The Yes Audit — Map Where Your Time & Energy Actually Go

Ninety days of your yeses, on paper, in front of you. The committee you joined because no one else would. The friend you keep showing up for who never asks how you're doing. The morning hour that always ends up belonging to other people's emails. You'll see the whole map — where your time, energy, and attention have been going, and what's left over for you. This is the module that ends the question: Am I really doing too much? You'll know.

Module 02

The No Practice — Your No Blocks, Your Scripts, Your Practice Ladder

No is a complete sentence. But your nervous system has been running an old program that says yes is safer. Here you map your specific no blocks — what happens in your body when the ask lands, what story your mind tells in that moment. Then you rebuild with the No Script Bank: ready-to-use phrases rewritten in your own voice for family, work, and the guilt trip that comes after. Then the Practice Ladder — one low-stakes no this week, one medium-stakes no you've been avoiding, one high-stakes no you just need to name. And what to do when the guilt spiral starts after the no, because it will.

Module 03

Finding the Buried Yes — What You've Stopped Letting Yourself Want

Once you stop giving every yes away, the question underneath everything gets loud: what do you actually want? Not what makes sense for everyone, or keeps the household functioning. What you want. This module asks you to go back to who you were before you became responsible for everyone else — the career you quietly let go of, the version of yourself you put on hold. It asks what you're jealous of when you see it in someone else. If your first answer is "I don't know" — that's exactly where the work begins. You leave with a sorted list of buried yeses and one you're ready to act on.

Module 04

The Commitment — One Real Decision, Signed by You

Not a vision board. You complete the workbook with a solid yes, a specific aligned action, and a date — signed by you. This is the moment it stops being insight and becomes your life.

What you leave with

The ability to stop before the yes comes out. Not just once.

That's the real yes that's been waiting.

What becomes possible

This is why I built it, and what I've watched happen.

Dr. Jite — what the yes was costing her

Before: I paid for things I didn't want to pay for, because the discomfort of someone else feeling awkward was more than I could stand. I agreed to host events I had no energy for and showed up smiling. I drove across town for people who never once asked if I was okay. I said yes to committees, gatherings, and obligations that had nothing to do with what I actually wanted. Not because I was generous. Because I didn't know how to stop.

After: Once I learned to interrupt the yes before it fired — in my body, in the two-second window — I stopped organizing my life around other people's comfort. I kept money I'd been giving away. I stopped showing up places I didn't choose. I got entire days back that used to disappear into things I never agreed to in my own name.

"I didn't know what the yes was costing me until I wrote it all down."

— Dr. Jite

"I would not have done that before. I would have stayed quiet and made sure everyone else was okay. That's not who I am anymore."

— Racquel L., Former client

This is for you if

You're done feeling like you let yourself down. Again.

You're an accomplished, high-striving woman who has created a life most people would envy, and you're still done.
You're done with always giving, doing, and having nothing left that reflects what you actually want.
You're still saying yes to things you don't want, showing up for everyone, and wondering why you feel like a stranger in your own life.
You've tried things — self-help books, boundaries lists, therapy, a weekend retreat. And still, on Tuesday, you hear yourself say yes for the fifth time this week and you don't know why.
You know what the reflex is. You just need to stop it in the moment that matters.

If you want someone to motivate you into action or give you a step-by-step blueprint without doing the internal work — this isn't for you.

Where you are right now

Start here. Practice this. Live this.

Step 1 · Start Here

The Yes Reflex

Free training · Video on demand

Free

✅Finally see why the yes keeps coming out before you mean it.
✅Discover the three signs your body is doing before the yes leaves your mouth.
❌No access to revisit the pattern interrupt.
❌No one to walk you through it the next time it happens.
Watch Free Training

Step 2 · Practice This

ENOUGH Workbook + Audio

Self-paced + lifetime access

$300 $150

✅Slow yourself down in the two-second window before the yes fires.
✅Maintain a no without retracting or softening it three days later.
✅Catch yourself before you over-commit or over-explain to be nice.
✅A consistent practice you can return to whenever you feel yourself slipping back to people pleasing, because it's not a book you read once and forget.
✅Yours for life — the pattern surfaces in every new chapter.
❌When you're ready and want a room and live coaching to walk you through it, that's where UNLOCKED comes in.
Interrupt the Yes — $150

Step 3 · Live This

UNLOCKED

6-Week Live Coaching + Five seats

$750

✅You stop making decisions organized around who needs what from you. You start choosing from what you actually want.
✅You stop waiting for someone who has never shown up to finally show up. You stop losing years to the wait.
✅You become honest about what you actually want — maybe for the first time in your adult life.
✅You find out what's yours. Not what's left after everyone is taken care of. What's yours.
✅You stop being "unmarriedly" married — present in a relationship but unseen, doing the work of two.
✅You spend money on the life you actually want instead of things that fill the gap for a few hours and don't satisfy.
✅You make the decision — the move, retirement, children leaving, what you're doing with the rest of it — from a clear place, not from fear.
✅You move like the woman you already are. No more waiting for permission from anyone before you do it.
✅You start sharing the gifts you've been holding back — and actually doing the things you kept saying you would.
✅Someone asks how you are and you switch from autopilot "okay" to how you genuinely feel.
✅You leave conversations knowing you meant every word you said because you said it in the room first.
✅You become available for the relationships you actually want — friendship, partnership, love, because you're no longer adjusting yourself for what other people need from you.
✅A small room of Black women going through the same thing beside you — you stop having to explain yourself to people who don't get it.
✅WhatsApp access to Jite between calls — real-time coaching when something comes up, not next Tuesday after you've already paid the price.
✅Your Own Declaration — written down, in your words, signed. The specific life you're choosing from here.
✅ENOUGH included — normally $300, currently $150 launch price.
Reserve Your Seat — $750

or 2 payments of $375

Imagine

It's 30 days from now.

You wake up on a Saturday and you don't cancel. Because you actually want to go.
You stop spending money on things that don't fill you. You start making decisions from honesty.
Someone asks how you are, and you don't say "I'm good." You say something real.
You stop overthinking whether you belong. You move like you do.
The things you've been holding back on — you stop waiting. You start being and doing them.
You show up in the relationship. Present. Because your tank isn't always empty anymore.

That's what becomes available.

Or if you are the type of person who does nothing after the insight you got from the training, this is what happens if you close this page and do nothing.

Next week someone asks and you say yes before you finish the thought.

You reorganize your Saturday and show up feeling exhausted and a little resentful that you didn't do what you said you would when you said yes.

So you smile through it and six months from now you're still in the exact same place.

Tired. Overextended. Still waiting for something to change on its own.

BUT, it won't. The automatic yes does not stop because you want it to. It stops because you chose to interrupt it over and over again until it becomes its own default reflex.

That is what this is for.

This is the foundation. You notice. You interrupt. You make one decision for yourself.

If your life structure has just shifted whether it's marriage, a role, or the version of yourself you outgrew and you're ready to do this work in a small room of Black women with direct coaching, UNLOCKED is the next step.

But ENOUGH is where it starts. For everyone.

Interrupt the Yes — $150

4-Module Workbook + Audio · Lifetime Access

ENOUGH

Launch Price · June 4, 2026

$150

Regular price: $300

I'm pricing ENOUGH at $150 — half the regular price — to get this tool in the hands of as many women as possible at launch.

Interrupt the Yes — $150

Instant access the moment you finish checkout. Yours for life — the pattern surfaces in every new chapter.

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