6-Week Live Group Coaching · Dr. Jite Lark · First Cohort
For the high-achieving Black woman whose marriage ended, whose kids left, whose career shifted — and who is ready to find out who she actually is when the role that organized her life is gone.
Where you are
From the outside, your life looks solid. Career. Home. Travel. Stability. People look at you and think, "She's good."
And you are. But somewhere underneath that, you know something in your life doesn't fit the way it used to.
You're not in crisis. You're functioning. Actually, high-functioning. But something feels locked. Not to everyone else. To yourself.
You feel it in the places you don't want to talk about. The weekend you cancel plans because you just can't. Money spent on things you don't need. The fact that you haven't cried in years even when you've tried.
You've pushed through a lot. More than most people know. And you've done it so well that even you started to believe pushing through was the same as living.
"Pushing through is not the same as living."
"When his needs weren't being met, he left. When my needs weren't being met for years, I stayed."
— Past clientThe marriage ended. The kids are gone. The career is shifting. The role you organized your life around has moved. You're standing at the threshold of what's next.
And the question underneath all of it — the one you've been too busy to hear — is getting loud.
Is This It?
That question isn't a sign of a breakdown. It's an invitation. And UNLOCKED is where you get to answer it.
Why UNLOCKED exists
Many women are coming out of something. A marriage. A role. A version of themselves they outgrew. And some are inside something — a relationship, a career, a chapter of life — realizing what they carried in didn't go anywhere. It just found a new place to show up.
When the structure fell away, what was running underneath became visible. For the first time. That's the opening.
You are realizing you've never actually had to create a life just for yourself. And you don't know what that looks like. Because it feels unfamiliar in a way that can't quite be placed.
High-functioning doesn't mean it went away. Many of us learned early that being impressive keeps you safe — that staying prepared, useful, and easy to rely on is how you get through. And it worked. Until it became the whole thing.
This is the moment most women reach and don't know what to do with. UNLOCKED is where you cross it.
"I've never had the opportunity to explore me."
— Past client
Meet your guide
Multiple degrees. Six-figure salary. Three jobs. Still chasing approval.
I watched my mother live for approval, and she was gone at 59. I was on the same road until I chose differently.
It was not a big life transition that first showed me the pattern. It was a friendship. Someone I had invested in for years. When she pulled away, I started to see it — the dynamic had always been one-sided. I had been showing up, adjusting, making myself easier to be around, making it work.
Her pulling away didn't create that pattern. It just made it impossible to ignore. The pattern followed me through every transition. It was there in every role I took on. Every decision I made around everyone else first.
That's why I created UNLOCKED. To unlock you from what was exposed when life changed.
Because I realized that if I didn't stop performing, I would run out of time to live. I didn't read about this or guess what was happening. I lived inside it.
— Dr. Jite
Feel the room
What becomes possible
How Racquel went from performing for approval → living for herself
Before: Doing everything she was supposed to be doing. But something felt off. Like she hadn't fully accessed all of who she was.
After: She opened herself up to love again. Started dating. Got married. Wrote her first book.
"There's another level of who you are."
— Racquel L., Past clientHow she went from staying quiet → holding her ground
Before: Not accustomed to saying no. Making sure everyone else was okay first.
"I realized how much of a people pleaser I had become. What I am about to do is good for me, but why does it feel so difficult?"
— Past clientAfter: "I would not have done that before. I would have stayed quiet and made sure everyone else was okay. That's not who I am anymore."
How she went from unheard → finally seen
Before: Knowing what she wanted but unable to put it into words — let alone ask for it.
"You were able to hone in on the needs I knew I wanted but didn't articulate, and create a plan around that."
— Current 1:1 clientIn 6 weeks, this changes
What you leave with
01
What was controlling her decisions before the program, so she can see it and stop it from making choices for her.
02
What she actually wants — the specific days, the specific relationships, how she wants to feel inside her own life, and the concrete steps to get there.
03
At least one decision she made during the six weeks that came from her and not from what anyone else needed, so she can return to it.
04
What was working against her and what it took from her, identified and released from her life for good.
05
The next three things she is already moving towards, with dates attached to each one.
Inside UNLOCKED
Weekly Live Coaching Calls
Six sessions on Zoom. Tuesdays at 6 PM EST. 60 minutes each. Direct coaching every call.
Five Women. Curated by Hand.
Intimate enough that you can't hide in the back. A room of Black women whose marriages ended, whose careers shifted, whose kids left — so you don't have to explain why it's hard to anyone in that room.
WhatsApp Access Between Calls
Real-time support when something comes up — not next Tuesday after you've already paid the price.
Body-Based Tools
For the moments when old loyalties pull. Grounding, breathing, and regulation practices you can use between sessions.
Session Replays
Every call recorded. Revisit when life surfaces something new.
ENOUGH — Included
The full workbook + audio experience ($150 value) included. Yours for life. Start the moment you finish checkout.
The arc
This is for you if
If you want a step-by-step blueprint or someone to motivate you into action — this isn't for you. If you already feel this is a yes, that's all you need.
The first cohort
That means something. You're not joining a machine that's been running for years. You're stepping into a room that's being built around the women who show up. The attention is undivided. The container is intimate in a way it may never be again at this size and this price.
It means you're the kind of woman who trusts what she already feels.
Five seats. Five women. First time ever.
Imagine
That's what becomes available. If you already know you're ready, your seat is below.
6-Week Live Group Coaching · First Cohort · Founders Pricing
$750
or 2 biweekly payments of $375
Founders pricing will not be offered again. Five seats. Enrollment closes when spots are filled.
Logistics
Questions
What if I can't make a call?
All sessions are recorded and replays are included. You'll have access to revisit the material whenever you need it.
What if I don't feel ready to share in a group?
You never have to share more than you're ready to. The room is intimate — five women, curated by hand — so it becomes a place of safety quickly. But you set your own pace.
Do I have support between calls?
Yes. WhatsApp access to Dr. Jite and the community between sessions. Real-time support when something comes up — not three days later after you've already paid the price.
Will this work even if I don't know what I want yet?
Yes. Not knowing what you want is often where the work begins. That's not a reason to wait — it's the reason to come.
What if I'm still in the middle of a transition?
UNLOCKED is designed for exactly that moment. You don't need to have landed anywhere yet. The transition is the opening, and that's where we start.
What is the refund policy?
Because this is a small group with limited seats, refunds are not available once the program begins. If you need to cancel before we start, email info@drjitelark.com to request a refund minus processing fees.
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Five seats. Enrollment closes when spots are filled. Founders pricing will not be offered again.
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